11/30/2022
From The Guardian:
Prince Williamâs godmother quits palace over comments to black charity boss
Former lady-in-waiting to queen issues apology after Ngozi Fulani questioned over where her âpeopleâ came from
Caroline Davies and Hannah Summers
Wed 30 Nov 2022 11.18 ESTThe late queenâs lady-in-waiting has resigned and apologised after a black guest at a reception hosted by the queen consort was left feeling traumatised and violated after she questioned her repeatedly about where she âreally came fromâ.
Ngozi Fulani, the founder of the charity Sistah Space, claimed Susan Hussey moved her hair to reveal her name badge and persistently questioned her over where her âpeopleâ came from, despite having been told she was a British national.
A spokesperson for the Prince of Wales, who is Lady Husseyâs godson, said the comments were unacceptable and that âracism has no place in our societyâ.
Perhaps King Charles and Queen-Consort Camilla just wanted the late Queenâs favorite crony gone.
The encounter on Tuesday at a violence against women and girls reception was witnessed by two other women: Mandu Reid, the leader of the Womenâs Equality party, who is of mixed heritage, and another black female charity representative.
Hussey, 83, the widow of the former BBC chair Sir Marmaduke Hussey, had recently been appointed one of the ladies of the household. She is a close friend of the king. Her daughter, Katherine Brooke, has just been appointed as one of Camillaâs new queenâs companions.
Buckingham Palace described the remarks as âunacceptable and deeply regrettableâ. Hussey has offered her âprofound apologiesâ for hurt caused and resigned her honorary position with immediate effect.
Here is Ngozi Fulaniâs description of the conversation:
Lady SH: Where are you from?
Me: Sistah Space.
SH: No, where do you come from?
Me: Weâre based in Hackney.
SH: No, what part of Africa are YOU from?
Me: I donât know, they didnât leave any records.
SH: Well, you must know where youâre from, I spent time in France. Where are you from?
Me: Here, UK
SH: NO, but what Nationality are you?
Me: I am born here and am British.
SH: No, but where do you really come from, where do your people come from?
Me: âMy peopleâ, lady, what is this?
SH: Oh I can see I am going to have a challenge getting you to say where youâre from. [VDARE.com note: Most people named Fulani hail from West Africa, but Fulaniâs birth name was Headley and her father was an immigrant from Barbados.]When did you first come here?
Me: Lady! I am a British national, my parents came here in the 50s when âŚ
SH: Oh, I knew weâd get there in the end, youâre Caribbean!
Me: No Lady, I am of African heritage, Caribbean descent and British nationality.
SH: Oh, so youâre from âŚâ
⌠[Fulani] wrote: âThere was nobody to report it to. I couldnât report it to the Queen Consort, plus it was such a shock to me and the 2 other women we were stunned into temporary silence. I just stood at the edge of the room, smiled & engaged briefly, with those who spoke to me until I could leave.â
She added: âIt was such a struggle to stay in a space you were violated in.â
She told the Guardian the first âno noâ was Hussey moving her hair.
âHere I am in this place as part of the 16 days of activism, experiencing non-physical violence
âNon-physical violenceâ is good, but âhair rapeâ would be better.
âNon-physical violenceâ is good, but âhair rapeâ would be better.
As commenter JCD1974 points out, âYou canât blame the old woman when the black woman looked like she was in costume as an African queen, complete with leopard print dress, a bone necklace and a tiara in her dreadlocks.â Sheâs dressing like a discount version of Eddie Murphyâs mother, the Queen of Zamunda, in Coming to America.
â you feel like you have the right to approach me, put your hand in my hair and insist I donât have the right to British nationality. In a space like that, what do you do?â
She said she had ânever felt so unwelcome or so uncomfortableâ.
She said: âI was almost forced to say that Iâm not really British. I donât know what she meant by âmy peopleâ. It was incomprehensible for her to consider that I have British citizenship. When she heard my parents were from the Caribbean she said: âFinally we are getting somewhereâ ⌠It was overt racism.
Of Husseyâs resignation, she said: âItâs tragic for me that it has ended that way. I would have preferred that she had been spoken to or re-educated.â âŚ
She suggested the palace household could benefit from cultural competency training of the sort run by Sistah Space.
Call now. Sistah Spaceâs operators are standing by to take your orders for their cultural competency training. After all, you wouldnât want this to happen to you.